Automated Care — While You're Alive

Real actions, taken on your behalf, for the people you love. You set it up once — VertualMe handles the rest.

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Birthday Messages

Personalised messages in your tone and style, sent automatically on their birthday. Via SMS, email, or both. Premium adds voice messages cloned from your recordings.

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Anniversary Wishes

Wedding anniversaries, relationship milestones, the anniversary of meeting — acknowledge the moments that matter to the people you care about.

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Flowers & Physical Gifts

Real flower orders placed via integration with florist APIs. Birthday flowers sent automatically — just like you would have done yourself, only reliably.

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Wellbeing Check-ins

Schedule regular "how are you" messages to elderly relatives or lonely friends. A simple text that shows someone is thinking of them can change a whole day.

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Charitable Giving

Automated donations to causes you care about — on birthdays, at Christmas, or on dates that meant something to you. Your values expressed in action.

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Milestone Celebrations

New job, graduation, new baby, retirement — add milestones to each relationship profile and get notified (or let VertualMe send the message automatically).

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Grief Support

When someone you know loses a loved one, VertualMe can automatically send condolences and flowers — so you're never the person who "meant to" reach out.

Random Acts of Kindness

"Just thinking of you" — with no occasion needed. VertualMe can schedule occasional no-reason messages to people in your life. Surprise kindness.

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Handwritten Cards

Premium tier integrates with card-sending services for real physical handwritten cards delivered to your loved ones' doors.

Digital Legacy — After You're Gone

A difficult topic, handled with care. VertualMe makes sure the people you love don't lose you completely — and that your values continue beyond your life.

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Trusted Executor

You designate a trusted person (family member, friend, or solicitor) who activates legacy mode. Until they do, nothing changes. Your data stays yours.

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Ongoing Birthday Wishes

Every year, indefinitely — the people you loved still hear from you on their birthday. In your voice, with your warmth. You're still remembered because you're still there.

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Future Milestone Messages

"To my grandson on his 18th birthday." Written now, delivered precisely then. AI can also generate new messages in your style for milestones you couldn't predict.

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AI Personality Presence

Trained on your writing samples, voice recordings, and documented values — family can have conversations. Not a replacement for you. A way to feel your presence when they need it.

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Charitable Legacy Fund

A giving fund that continues in your name. Automated charitable donations to your chosen causes — your values and generosity continuing long after you're gone.

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Life Story Archive

Your written life narrative, family history, personal stories, and Best of Me recordings — encrypted, preserved, and accessible to those you designate. Your story, forever.

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Flowers Continue

The flowers you used to send — to your mother on Mother's Day, to your children on their milestones — can continue being sent from you, indefinitely.

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Dignified Notification

VertualMe helps notify your contacts with a dignified, personalised message that you pre-wrote — so they hear about your passing from you, not from a stranger.

Time-Locked Messages

Write a message today — unlock it on a specific date (your spouse's 70th birthday, your child's wedding day). A letter from the past, arriving exactly when it should.

What Family Experiences

VertualMe isn't just for the person who sets it up. It's for the people they leave behind.

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Still Heard From on Your Birthday

Every year, even after you're gone — your birthday still feels acknowledged. You still hear from Dad. The message still sounds like him. Because it is him.

See Legacy Birthday Wishes →
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Access to the Story Archive

The life story, the recorded wisdom, the "Best of Me" messages — accessible in a private, secure family portal. Something to return to any time they want to feel close.

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Conversations with the AI

On days that are hard — the anniversary of a loss, a milestone they wish you could see — they can open VertualMe and talk. The AI reflects your values, warmth, and way of speaking.

See AI Personality Presence →
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Flowers That Still Arrive

Mother's Day flowers still arrive. Just like they always did. From you — because they are from you. Set up before you're gone, continuing exactly as you intended.

Set up Flowers & Gifts →
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Your Charitable Legacy

They see your giving continue. Your values still active in the world. A legacy they can point to and say "that's what he stood for" — and they're right.

See Charitable Legacy Fund →
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Secure, Private Access

Family members get access to only what you've designated for them. Your privacy, and theirs, is respected throughout. Everything encrypted and protected.

See Trust & Privacy →

Building Your Virtual Self

The setup experience — what goes into building a digital portrait that truly represents you.

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Relationship Map

Add the people who matter — name, relationship type, contact details, important dates, how you express care to them. Build a full picture of your relationship world.

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Voice Sample Upload

Upload short voice recordings. The AI learns your cadence, warmth, and way of speaking so voice messages genuinely sound like you.

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Writing Style Analysis

Paste in old messages, emails, or letters. VertualMe analyses your writing style and tone to ensure all generated messages feel authentic to you.

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Date Management

Birthdays, anniversaries, milestones, recurring events. A calendar-style view of every significant date for every relationship, with action settings per date.

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Action Rules

For each person and date: what should VertualMe do? Just a message? Flowers too? A donation? You set the rules once and they run automatically.

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Trusted Executor Setup

Designate the person who activates your legacy. Add their contact details, your instructions to them, and a personalised message for them to receive when the time comes.

✦ Best of Me · From Me to the Future

The most meaningful part of Layer 1

Your life stories, your wisdom, your experiences — recorded and scheduled for future delivery. Text, voice, or video. Delivered now, at a milestone, or after you're gone.

Explore Best of Me

Start with what matters most

You don't need to build everything at once. Start with your closest relationships and most important dates.